ADHD Testing & Autism Evaluations for Children & Teens Ages 2.5-17 | Middlesex, NJ

In-person in Middlesex, NJ  |  Virtual throughout New Jersey and Florida

Family with two children smiling during a neurodiversity affirming ADHD and Autism evaluation consultation at True Reflections Mental Health Services in Middlesex NJ

Neurodiversity affirming ADHD testing and Autism evaluations for children and teens ages 2.5 through 17 are available at True Reflections Mental Health Services in Middlesex, NJ. Evaluations are conducted in-person and virtually throughout New Jersey and Florida by Janine Kelly, LCSW, C-NDAAP, a certified neurodiversity affirming assessment practitioner specializing in girls, masking, and late-identified neurodivergence.

Your child is struggling. You can see it clearly, even when no one else does. Maybe teachers keep saying they are fine. Maybe a previous evaluation came back inconclusive. Maybe you have been told to wait and see. You are done waiting. You want real answers.

Our evaluations are designed to find what others may have missed, and to give your child the clarity, the diagnosis, and the roadmap they deserve

Appointments are currently available. No waitlist.

Is This Evaluation Right for Your Child or Teen?

Our ADHD testing and Autism evaluations are designed for children and teens who are struggling in ways that do not quite fit a simple explanation. You may be in the right place if your child or teen:

  • Is falling behind in school despite clearly being bright and capable

  • Is struggling socially and making and keeping friends feels harder than it should

  • Has meltdowns, shutdowns, or emotional outbursts that feel disproportionate to what triggered them

  • Has been diagnosed with anxiety or depression but treatment is not addressing the root cause

  • Has sensory sensitivities that interfere with daily life

  • Is masking at school and falling apart at home

  • Was told they do not qualify for an IEP or 504 Plan because there is no formal diagnosis

  • Had a previous evaluation that did not feel complete or accurate, especially if your child is a girl

What Your Child or Teen Will Receive From the Evaluation

  • A comprehensive written report. Your full evaluation report runs 15 to 30 pages depending on the package selected, and documents your child's complete neurodevelopmental profile, including their cognitive, emotional, social, and sensory functioning. You will understand not just what your child struggles with, but why, and how their brain works across school, home, and social settings.

  • A formal ADHD or Autism diagnosis, if criteria are met, on official True Reflections Mental Health Services letterhead. This documentation is accepted by schools, physicians, and other providers.

  • Individualized school accommodation recommendations, including 504 Plan and IEP support. Schools in New Jersey are required by law to provide accommodations to students with documented disabilities, but without a clinical diagnosis, many children are denied the support they need even when their struggles are clearly visible. Your evaluation report provides the clinical documentation your child's school needs to begin the 504 or IEP process, so you have everything you need to advocate for your child confidently at their next school meeting.

  • A personalized feedback session. This is not a report dropped into a portal and left unexplained. We sit down together to go through your child's results in plain language, at your pace, with time for every question you have.

  • A clear path forward. Recommendations extend beyond school, including guidance on therapy options, parenting strategies tailored to your child's profile, sensory supports for daily life, community resources, and concrete next steps.

Four diverse children hugging and playing together on a playground representing the age groups served for neurodiversity affirming ADHD and Autism evaluations at True Reflections MHS in Middlesex NJ
Five diverse teenagers sitting together outside representing teens ages 13 through 17 served by neurodiversity affirming ADHD and Autism evaluations at True Reflections MHS in Middlesex NJ

Ages We Evaluate

  • Children ages 2.5 and up (Autism evaluations). Early identification is one of the most important things a parent can do for a young child who may be autistic. The earlier a child receives an affirming evaluation, the earlier they can access the right support and understanding.

  • Children ages 4 and up (ADHD evaluations). If your child is struggling with attention, impulse control, emotional regulation, or hyperactivity, a comprehensive evaluation can clarify what is happening and what support will help most.

  • Teens ages 13 through 17. Social demands increase, academic expectations intensify, and the pressure to fit in can lead to exhausting levels of masking. A diagnosis in adolescence can reduce self-blame, open the door to accommodations, and provide a framework for understanding themselves that changes everything.

Three teenage girls standing together representing the specialized neurodiversity affirming ADHD and Autism evaluations for girls at True Reflections MHS in Middlesex NJ
Three girls sitting together representing the specialized neurodiversity affirming ADHD and Autism evaluations for girls at True Reflections MHS in Middlesex NJ

Specializing in ADHD and Autism in Girls

ADHD and Autism in girls is one of the most underdiagnosed presentations in mental health today. Research and diagnostic criteria were built almost entirely around how these conditions present in boys, so girls are missed, dismissed, and misdiagnosed at alarming rates.

Girls with ADHD are often inattentive rather than hyperactive. They appear dreamy, disorganized, or emotionally sensitive rather than disruptive, and their struggles are frequently labeled as anxiety or low self esteem. Autistic girls often develop sophisticated masking strategies from a young age, mirroring the social behavior of peers so convincingly that their Autism goes undetected.

Your daughter may have been told she is too sensitive. She may appear fine at school but fall apart at home. She may have had a previous evaluation that came back without a clear diagnosis. Janine Kelly, LCSW, C-NDAAP has extensive training in identifying masking in girls and recognizing the female presentation of ADHD and Autism. If your daughter has been overlooked before, this evaluation is designed to finally see her.

What Is AuDHD, and Could My Child Have Both?

AuDHD describes having both Autism and ADHD at the same time. It is far more common than most people realize, and one of the most frequently missed combinations in children who have only been evaluated for one condition, often because one presentation masks the other.

At True Reflections Mental Health Services, our Comprehensive ADHD and Autism Evaluation looks at the full picture, exploring whether both may be present, because understanding the complete neurodevelopmental profile is what allows us to provide recommendations that actually match how your child's brain works.

Why I Do This Work

I struggled all throughout school, and no one ever figured out why. I was bright. I worked hard. And still, something always felt harder for me than it seemed to be for everyone else. I didn’t get accommodations. I didn’t get answers. I just kept pushing through and quietly wondering what was wrong with me.

It wasn’t until I received my own ADHD and Autism diagnosis as an adult that so much of my life finally made sense. And honestly? My first feeling wasn’t relief. It was grief. Grief for all the years I spent masking, struggling, and believing I just wasn’t trying hard enough when what I actually needed was support that matched how my brain works.

That experience is the reason I do this work. When I sit down with your child, I am not just running through a clinical checklist. I am thinking about who they are going to become, and whether they will have what they need to get there. A diagnosis opens doors like IEP and 504 Plan accommodations that can change the entire trajectory of a child’s school experience. I did not have those doors opened for me. I want every child I evaluate to have them.

Why Choose True Reflections Mental Health Services for Your Child's ADHD or Autism Evaluation?

  • Certified Neurodiversity Affirming Assessment Practitioner (C-NDAAP). This certification designates advanced training in conducting ADHD and Autism evaluations through a neurodiversity affirming framework, including the female presentation and masking (see "Specializing in ADHD and Autism in Girls" above). Your child's results are interpreted through a strengths based lens, not a deficit based one, so the goal is understanding your child's unique profile rather than pathologizing who they are.

  • Lived experience. Janine received her own ADHD and Autism diagnosis later in life, after years of struggling through school without answers or accommodations. She knows firsthand what it feels like to work twice as hard as everyone around you and still fall short, not because of effort or ability, but because your brain was never given the tools it needed. That experience shapes every evaluation she conducts. Getting the right answers early is not just about a piece of paper; it is about making sure your child does not spend their school years wondering what is wrong with them, because the truth is that nothing is wrong with them at all.

  • Sensory friendly office. The office is thoughtfully designed with neurodivergent children in mind. Lighting and noise levels can be adjusted, toys and materials can be covered to reduce visual overwhelm, and flexible seating is available throughout, so testing sessions feel as comfortable and pressure-free as possible and your child can show up as their genuine self.

  • A collaborative process. You are involved from intake through feedback, not a bystander. For child evaluations, the intake takes place with the parent first, before testing begins with your child. The school also completes standardized questionnaires so your child's full picture is captured across every environment, not just at home.

The Evaluation Process

Step 1: Intake appointment. A 45 to 50 minute conversation with the parent or guardian covering developmental history, current challenges, school experiences, and your goals for the evaluation.

Step 2: Testing sessions. Your child or teen attends one to two sessions of two hours each, depending on the package selected, with assessments chosen based on their unique profile and referral questions.

Step 3: Report preparation. A comprehensive written report documents your child's full neurodevelopmental profile, diagnosis if criteria are met, and individualized recommendations for home, school, and daily life.

Step 4: Feedback session. A 45 to 50 minute appointment with the parent or guardian to review results in plain language, answer every question, and confirm next steps.

Assessment Tools Used in Child and Teen Evaluations

Every evaluation is individualized. Tools that may be used include:

  • Childhood Autism Rating Scale, Second Edition (CARS-2)

  • Monteiro Interview Guidelines for Diagnosing the Autism Spectrum, Second Edition (MIGDAS-2)

  • Social Responsiveness Scale, Second Edition (SRS-2)

  • Conners 4th Edition (Conners 4)

  • Brown Executive Function/Attention Scales (Brown EF/A Scales)

  • Delis-Kaplan Executive Function System (D-KEFS)

  • Delis-Rating of Executive Functions (D-REF)

  • Behavior Assessment System for Children, Third Edition (BASC-3)

  • Developmental Neuropsychological Assessment, Second Edition (NEPSY-II)

  • Sensory Profile

  • The Comprehensive Assessment of Interoceptive Awareness, Third Edition

  • RCADS (Revised Children's Anxiety and Depression Scale)

  • Clinical Assessment of Pragmatics (CAPs)

  • A Language Processing Skills Assessment (TAPS-4)

  • Wechsler Individual Achievement Test, Fourth Edition (WIAT-4)

  • California Verbal Learning Test, Third Edition (CVLT-3)

  • Wide Range Assessment of Memory and Learning, Third Edition (WRAML-3)

  • Reynolds Adaptable Intelligence Test (RAIT)

  • Reynolds Intellectual Assessment Scales, Second Edition (RIAS-2)

  • Beck Anxiety Inventory (BAI)

  • Beck Depression Inventory, Second Edition (BDI-2)

Not all tools are used in every evaluation. Janine selects the most clinically appropriate instruments for each individual child based on their age, presentation, and the specific referral questions being addressed.

Four step ADHD and Autism evaluation process flowchart for children and teens at True Reflections Mental Health Services in Middlesex NJ including intake appointment with parent, testing sessions, report preparation, and feedback session

Evaluation Fees

Comprehensive ADHD & Autism Evaluation with IQ Testing: Includes a 20 to 30 page comprehensive report with recommendations and accommodations for home and school. Fee: $3,600 | $500 deposit required to schedule.

Comprehensive ADHD & Autism Evaluation with IQ Testing (Memorandum Only): Includes a memorandum of evaluation on True Reflections MHS letterhead. No full report. Fee: $2,600 | $500 deposit required to schedule.

ADHD or Autism Evaluation: Includes a 15 to 20 page comprehensive report with recommendations and accommodations for home and school. Fee: $2,600 | $500 deposit required to schedule. Additional $350 for IQ testing.

ADHD or Autism Evaluation (Memorandum Only): Includes a memorandum of evaluation on True Reflections MHS letterhead. No full report. Fee: $1,600 | $500 deposit required to schedule. Additional $350 for IQ testing.

Payment Plans Are Available

You do not have to pay the full amount upfront. A $500 deposit secures your appointments, with the remaining balance divided across the evaluation process so the financial commitment is spread over several weeks rather than due all at once.

  1. $500 deposit upon onboarding — secures your intake and testing appointments and begins the scheduling process

  2. Half of the remaining balance due at the intake appointment

  3. The final half of the remaining balance due the morning of the first testing day

*Example: For a $2,600 evaluation, payments would be $500 at scheduling, $1,050 at intake, and $1,050 the morning of the first testing day.

True Reflections Mental Health Services does not bill insurance directly. A Superbill is provided after the feedback session for potential out-of-network insurance reimbursement.

Frequently Asked Questions

Serving Children and Teens Throughout Central New Jersey

True Reflections Mental Health Services provides in-person ADHD testing and Autism evaluations for children and teens in Middlesex, NJ and the surrounding communities including Bridgewater, Bound Brook, Piscataway, Edison, Somerset, Manville, Dunellen, Watchung, Warren, Westfield, Scotch Plains, Fanwood, Plainfield, North Plainfield, Green Brook, South Plainfield, Metuchen, New Brunswick, East Brunswick, Hillsborough, Somerville, Raritan, and Branchburg. Virtual evaluations are available throughout New Jersey and Florida.

Looking for adult ADHD and Autism evaluations? Visit our Adult Evaluation page at truereflectionsmhs.com/adhd-autism-evaluation-adults-nj.

Still have questions? Reach out at info@truereflectionsmhs.com